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Braless flawless12/27/2023 If you feel more confident in a bra, then wear that bra! My choice to not wear a bra is exactly that- a choice. If you feel as if you need a bra for support, then you should do what makes you comfortable. I am also very much aware that not everyone feels this way. I still own a few bras, and wear them if an outfit simply requires one, or if I am having a romantic night with my significant other. Let me clear some things up before I conclude. After some support-no pun intended- from my friends, I began to embrace my decision, and I haven’t gone back since. Despite that fact that confidence is what almost kept me from going bra-less, the decision actually boosted my self-esteem.īras are not for me. Every morning when I woke up, I did not want to have to put on a bra- so I didn’t. As I entered my sophomore year of college, I took a cold hard look at myself, my breasts, and my bra collection. ![]() I have always been a little curvy, and though I am only a C cup, I still was not sure if a curvy woman like me could pull off the braless look. Also, I did not have the body confidence that I needed. I was only wearing them in order to avoid being “that girl who doesn’t wear a bra.” I felt as if I had checked so many of the classic-hippie-feminist boxes, and I did not want to become a stereotype. The more I did this though, I realized that these bralettes were not even adding support. I would find the best sale at Urban Outfitters or Forever 21, and I would buy multiple bralettes. I could take that money that would get me one nice push-up bra, and instead buy six cheap bralettes. I could be spending that $59.99 nearly anywhere else. One of the things that truly hit me when I came to college is that bras are damn expensive. The worst part of this discomfort, is that it came with a sizeable price tag. I felt confined, restricted, and I found myself constantly adjusting myself. Which brings me to my next point- most bras are not comfortable. In the end, it is about what makes you comfortable. While it might be nice to oblige, and fulfill some of their fantasies as they should do for you, your decision should be based on what you want to do. ![]() I can attest to the fact that lingerie is great for about ten minutes until the process of getting it off is like solving an unnecessarily complex jigsaw puzzle. As I began to have more romantic experiences, I realized that though your partner may enjoy sexy underwear, in the end they do not really care. I would buy uncomfortable push-up bras adorned with lace and jewels not because I liked them, but because I thought they would make me look sexier. ![]() I was mostly excited to impress whoever would see me in it: a boyfriend, a hookup, etc. I first began to purchase “sexy bras” when I was around 16 years old. But as these years went by, I realized a few things. For the next six years, I built up quite the collection. Next thing I knew, I went into Victoria’s Secret every chance I got. After a slew of puberty books and awkward health classes, I had discovered that I was “becoming a woman.” At least that is what every adult in my life would tell me. I started wearing a bra as soon as my breasts began to make their grand appearance. I could not wait until I got to wear such beautiful things. In awe, I gazed at the lace, sparkles, and ornamental undergarments. When I was 12 years old I went into Victoria’s Secret for the first time.
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